Leadership and Community
Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success. ~Henry Ford
Almost every business starts with an entrepreneur working alone. Even if you started with a partner or two there comes a time when you divide up the work and are head down working by yourself. Those early hours (or days, or weeks, or months…) alone are a crucible; do you really want it, are you willing to keep working to make it a success? The strength of many business owners comes from those early days of gutting it out.
When a business matures and there is starting to be a team in place, or even when it grows and there’s a strong team around the founder, there is still a part of his or her heart that is alone. There are things the founder sees, but can’t share. How can you tell your team you don’t know how to solve some of the problems your team faces? Where do you go to talk about your shortcomings, your fears, your failures?
But the flip side is also true. When you figure out a particularly difficult issue, or find a way to get the client to agree to a new deal, who do you tell then? It’s a lucky entrepreneur who has a spouse who’s interested and understands all that’s going on; most don’t. Your friends haven’t been through these experiences either.
In the early days of my business I had a few close friends that I turned into my “kitchen cabinet” I sent them weekly reports so that they would know all that is going on. They held me accountable to my goals, and celebrated my successes. They didn’t always understand why I was so excited, but they got excited along with me.
Friends are great, but there is a special community when business owners get together, let down their guard and start asking each other real questions. I was lucky enough to find a group of business owners who met together, all looking to improve their business. When that group ran out of steam I found another one. I have found so much support and generosity in those groups. Problems that were thorny to me, were cake walks for others, and vice versa. When I finally overcame those issues that the group had helped me with it was great to show them the solution and have them appreciate it for what it is.
Who is your community? Who’s got your back? Who tells you your ideas stink, or your communication needs to improve? Who can understand and celebrate your wins? We all need it. Where’s yours?
If you need this kind of business owner community, check out Anchor Advisors’ Peer Groups.







